Ever wondered noticing yourself when talking to others. If you were shown (unaware) videos then you would give your thoughts a serious thought. Though I didn't see the video but watched myself during some of the conversations.

Many a times during the conversation, I happen to try to think those things that other person might be thinking during our conversation. So my processor is actually dual processing thoughts. That is where the conflicts arise - I think more of what the other person is thinking than what I need to think! Due to this, I had also noticed myself not speaking my mind or failing to be assertive of my thoughts. The way my mind works during conversations is noticeable to me in the recent discussions.

We really need to take care of a situation like this where we think more of the other person's thought process through his gesture than ours. We should keep a spare mind buffer available for us to use at all times. This makes our mind and its cache fully occupied to 100% that makes the extra thinking almost impossible at the times we need most.

It becomes important to practice the method of keeping our mind light weight so that we have the space and power to think.

We perform better when we imbibe the nothing-to-lose feeling. The "Do it right!" pressure tempts us to commit mistakes. Its time we over came this pressure-

Many a times, we don't wish to change because we are afraid that this change should have been brought earlier. There is an uneasy scary feeling in the anticipation of the questions like- "Why now? / I had told you before, you didn't listen? ", the others proving themselves to have been right.

It so happens that we tend to get blame more than the accolades. Due to this we are scared to bring a positive change in ourselves. Had there been more positivity around, we would never be afraid in admitting our mistakes.